Simple Musing

Life is kind of like a game played. You give a little, and hope for a better return. Many times that outcomes are not what we would have hoped to be, surprises seem to rule. Nevertheless, be it pleasant or nasty, a surprise is still something that we would have to learn to accept, to deal with, and later on, move on with our lifes, however it has changed us.

The people that you meet along your way, they are all different. One can never be sure that saying the same thing that pleases this person would bring out the same effect in the other. It takes a lot observation and tact to communicate and deal with every single person that you meet, from your aging grandparents, to your nagging parents, to your indifferent sister, and to the many others in the world around me that did not stop changing.

But it is these everchanging relationships that interests me. An approach, when dealt with in the right way, will yield a positive outcome, or else otherwise. Yet that does not depend on only one party. Relationship is something that the two parties involved will have to be equally responsible of. Not only does one party need to give, the other will need to give as much, if not more, to keep that balance in place. Similarly, the taking plays the same role too. Never take more than what you have given.

There would be times when you will be approached by people with certain foul intentions. Such intentions are mostly substancially visible to all if one would take a step back, and look back into the situation with a cool head. When such situation arises, any sort of assumption will not help with the situation. The best way will be to just sit back, and watch your opponents move. Then, try to figure out the real reasons behind those moves, and plan a protection plan, or a counter attack. Never sit and become a duck for the bullets.

Never fight your opponent according to his strength. Fight in favour of your own strength. Keep your profile low, and never show off to others what you know or what you have. For these may be the weapon that might just save you in the future.

Learn to be humble, and never lose faith. The foremost, never lose hope. Something good might just come out of a bad incident.

For those who has yet to do anything wrong, do it right the first time.

For those who has been wrong, repent, turn around, and do the right thing the next time round.

Never forget what we are, for it is what we are that determines who we are.