There have been many instances where I begin anew. New place, new environment, new people,new life. 

All of it has one thing in common. They all have good times, good people, and eventual heartache. No one life that I have been through is not laced with ups and downs.

But as I age, the heartache becomes more painful, and more unbearable. Is it because of age, or is it because of experience? That with experience, one begins to love better, and deeper. One learns to minimize the eventual of a break, but does not learn enough to totally prevent it. Yet when one learns to become better in loving, one exposes oneself to a deeper despair when it breaks.

It is true that you are the strongest where you break. But in that moment of a break, the pain and the sadness overwhelms you, they simply make it seem as though life is nothing but that.

Even as a person, there is only so much pain one can take. But pain is never too much to decide to not live.

It is important to always believe that there will be a better tomorrow. It is always important to have faith in yourself, that things always happen for a reason. Whatever happens, you are a part of it, and therefore responsible for it. However, it does not mean that you are solely responsible. Any relationships require both ends to make it work. If one end fails to meet the requirement of the relationship, it will break until both sides decide to meet those requirements.

Always know that you are not alone. That you will have someone who cares enough to be there for you. You just have to look hard enough.

Never give up, and keep on hoping. 

This is sickening.

I am killing myself inside.

I am sick.

I need help.

温度计

每一个人的心上，都应该设上一个温度计。在适时或需要时，作出适当的调整。

在心热的时候，将它温度调低。

在心冷的时候，将它温度调高。

过渡的热情，如火，那是会烧伤对方。

过渡的冷漠，如冰，那是会冻伤对方。

只有在对方能够接受的温度范围内，才能充分的发挥出心中所要作出的表达。

只有在对方能够感觉到舒服的温度下，才能真正给以对方所需要的爱与关怀。

在心上，设上一个温度计。 不只是为了对方好，也是让自己不要太累了。

为他，为自己， 设上一个心的温度计吧。

Positive Thinking

Life can be changed, if you would change the way that you think.

三好，三好；生好， 生好

做人有三好，生命自然好。
好事多做到， 福运自然到。
好话多说说，居心不用说。
好心多存点， 安心多一点。

Before Cycle Meet

What happens before cycle meetings of a company?

When cycle meeting is about to take place, one will start seeing the signs and symptoms of the approaching event.

Firstly, all will be busy getting prepared for the event, in particular, the management and the organizers of the event. Meetings after meetings will be conducted, in order to determined the contents and flow of the meetings. Late nights and working over the weekend is a norm, so is several sleepless nights for many due to the worries and stresses imposed on every tired minds trying so hard to make things possible.

And that is only at the management level. Down to the grassroots, where men are sent out to fight in this world of cruel competition. In addition to the many and increasing players in the field for the same piece of market pie, there are budget cuts and reduction in head counts. Thus, one would have to shoulder more responsibilities than before to produce the same, if not more, results. With the fixed amount of time allocated for each area over time coverage, the addition of a cycle meeting into the very tight schedule of each manpower means that each will have less time to work in order to reach their target sales. And for that, they would have to work harder and longer hours.

With more time spent on working and less time on resting, it is inevitable that many in the company will fall ill before the meet. Most notably, ailments with its nature in infection, pain and lethargy. An overworked mind and body means that the immune system of the body is low, thus the increase in the events of illness amoung those involved with the meeting.

Thus, it is advisable that reasonable amount of time be dedicated to the resting of the mind and the body, not only to allow sufficient rest for the participants, but also to allow the relative in time to achieve the coverage needed to satisfy the top management in their reports, and of course, the amount of sales to make everyone happy.

Waiter Rant

The Book that I have been reading through the weekend.

It's a good book, recommended reading, and if you have no desire to purchase it, you could read the Waiter Rant's blog.

It's a Sign Board

Ever thought that a sign board would speak rude to you?

"Maa Ku" Gallery

It's a shop for baby stuffs. :D